This part of my platform will be a space to share my thoughts on some hot topics. It will have plenty of sex. Can there be too much sex? Really darling? The 'tea' part is my thoughts on what drives us in life and relationships, besides sex. It can't be all sex, right? Hope you enjoy it!
Being Left In The Dark
It comes a time in every relationship when your partner is close to unidentifiable, new moods and lost of touch that was once a everyday occasion. So what does your heart tell you ? and whats best for the relationship. Thoughts of leaving. Some thoughts of even another party involved in the hectic situation of the relationship. I sometimes wonder what would get the best reaction, but we all know reactions is a short term strategie and its results that we need. ''Remove your self and don’t be sorry for it'’ .whether its a day or days, Enjoy ur happy with out the excuses, put your happy first!
Condoms That Change Color In Contact with STD
According to Time.com the old adage goes that teenagers think about sex constantly, but there are at least a few out there who have expressed a very keen interest in the particulars of safe sex. Three British teens—two 14-year-olds and one 13-year-old—have proposed an idea for a new type of condom that could detect sexually transmitted diseases amongst intimate partners. The Washington Post explains: There would be antibodies on the condom that would interact with the antigens of STDs, causing the condom to change colors depending on the disease...For instance, if the condom were exposed to chlamydia, it might glow green — or yellow for herpes, purple for human papilloma virus and blue for syphilis. The proposal won the trio the top prize in the U.K.'s TeenTech Awards, and they have already reportedly been approached by condom companies. The idea, however, is not without its imperfections. It seems unclear whether the STIs would be detected in just the user's partner or also the user as well. In addition, there's the awkward question of what would happen if the condom came into contact with two or more STDs—not to mention the logistical difficulties of figuring out a way to determine the color with sufficient opportunity to make use of those findings. Nevertheless, if teens are going to think about sex, it's tough to quibble with them spending more time thinking about ways to make is safer.
mike from long island, NY
Hi Mike Thank You for trusting me with your story. First and foremost Never let a human being make you feel unworthy, from the letter you wrote you seem like a genuinely nice all around guy. In life we sometimes look for an approval through a sexual connection and I believe that's what you was bidding on. Sometimes ''time'' is a beauty and u can determine more about a person's characteristics by that. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder , and yes you described this ''One Night Man'' as that, but did you ever put your self as the Catch? Not having sex maybe you thought it would savor the moment, when in reality our ''One Night Man'' probably had different intensions from jump. Besides the good kissing and no sex. Did you ever ask him about his self? ''maybe he's in a relationship'', ''maybe he's dealing with a lot'' ,or the Classic of them all ''Maybe he's just not that into you'' but you didn't ask that. You bidded on the idea of a intimate connection which is a hard game to play when your raw feelings are envolved.
CYNTHIA FROM LOWER EAST SIDE NYC
Dear Cynthia Thank You for trusting me with your story. I do belive that a lady of any sort should not touch a checkbook , especially not on the second date .... I belive the best thing to do when you see a ''Red Flag'' is leave and don't look back.
how soon is too soon to give oral sex?
Oral pleasuring is definitely a touchy subject. How soon is too soon to give oral sex? While conducting my research I was shocked about the different opinions on oral sexual pleasure. Some believe when you're ready is the best time. Others believed its an open door to not call back if oral act is preformed too soon. To each their own ,but thats not the advice I’m going to leave my readers with. I believe performing any oral sexual act is evidence of love. Cellular nature of what your containing when performing such a act is the biggest gamble. Many STD’s can be passed around. so with that being said Safe Sex Is the Best Sex, and oral sex is safer. ☮
sex on the first Date
In today's world, is it weird to have sex on the first date? 10 years ago I think the answer would have been, "HELL, NO! I’m not a hoe." But then again, I have had my share of guilty pleasures. I admit I actually preferred to sample the goods before a commitment. Now that I’m older, my idea of sex has changed. I’m more emotionally connected. It has become just as important to have a meeting of the minds. Not to mention a fear of the dreaded "Sex on the First Date Curse’’ -- you know, 'the no-call-back-after-the-date-of-what-you-thought-was-good-sex' blues. I was guilty of that curse from both sides, I must confess. But my best advice for the first date is don't over-think things; let it flow naturally. And if it leads to sex... and you want it.... go for it!
Why is there often negative judgements when someone hears that a friend or associate met a lover on a social dating site? I’m sure guilty of being judgmental of online connections, yet the majority of my adult years 85% of my love life as been found on an online dating service. I remember a stage in my life where I was often embarrassed to tell a friend if I met my significant other on-line, or even in person at a bar. Not that any of this is really better than meeting at a Starbucks -- haha yes I’m guilty of that too. But then you also wonder if there is a big difference between a sex type app from a dating kind …. after all Grindr is pretty different than Christian Mingle, Tinder, eHarmonay etc. Personally, I don’t believe it matters how you find love or sex … the part thats so hard to find is great sex with love, which can create such happiness. I’m not sure where the 'sex with love' rule came from -- where "good" sex needs to be with love. I've enjoyed love without sex and sex without love. Sometimes they come together and sometimes they don't.